A Reason, A Season, A Lifetime

The saying goes that people will be in your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. The first time I think I ever heard that saying was during a training that I was in for becoming a resident assistant before starting my third year of school.

It really hadn't dawned on me of what it really meant until recently due to some things that I am changing in my life and that other people in my life are not changing. Now I am not knocking anyone for staying stagnant in their own life but I can't stop moving in mine. I have come so far and I still have a ways to go with everything that I want to accomplish in life. I can not have people around me that are standing still. Plain and simple. That is no longer going to work for me. You don't have to encourage me. You don't even have to support me if you don't want too. You can just step aside and let me do my thing and move forward in my life with the momentum that I am building for myself.

Now if you want to hang on for the ride okay cool but I am not going to let your negativity or poor decision making skills hinder me from doing what I need to do for myself. There are so many people that I thought really had my best interests in mind but it turns out that they just want to keep me down in the dumps with them. This is totally unacceptable. I can not live my life that way and I refuse to live my life that way.

When you have so much going on in a positive light and you are making changes to better yourself it is very hard to keep people around that are not bettering themselves. At first it might make you a little angry and upset because you are doing all of these things and they are just standing still. And of course you want the people that you care about and love you to grow with you but that is not always the case.

One thing that I have learned in life is that you can not wait on other people to make moves in your own life. You have to go after what you want and do the things that you know are going to benefit you the most. Whatever your talent is let that shine through and the people that are really in your corner are going to back you no matter what you are doing, they are always going to be in your corner. But the ones that are out to get you for some thing because they think that your talent is going to take them some where is the saddest thing that you will ever come across.

At this point in my life with everything that I have going on from finishing these writing projects that, to living more in the moment, and getting healthier for my own life and my future, I don't have time for the BS any longer. When I said I was going to stop bullshitting this year I meant that for myself as well as for everyone else that is in my life too. Because if you are going to be on that bull shit than I have to let you fall by the waste side and maybe I can pick you back up again once you get your own things together and work out your own issues.

But until I am going for mine and I am not going to let anyone stop me.

And that is just my .04 cents

Until Next Time.......


Peace & Many Blessings